Why.

Is it healthy to put yourself in a relationship that you know you're riding passenger in? How do you get into the driver's seat, or at least compromise so you both can pull over occassionally and let the other drive? Obviously the latter is best, but what happens when you know you're not getting anywhere and still allowing yourself to be taken for a ride? At some point, you break, and at some point you draw the line. Or, very slowly, you eventually grow out of it.

I would prefer just stopping it altogether, but deep down I know it's not going to happen. I've tried to wean myself off of this plenty of times and it still hasn't happened. The only way I feel I can move on is if I know for sure that this won't amount to anything. I want an answer, either way, and if the answer is no then I'll be relieved. I'm tired of stumbling over the same thing again and again, and I just want something new to come along.